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3 Recent Scares

How do you handle those true scares – you know – when someone jumps out at you or startles you?!  When the boys were younger, they decided that it was super fun to scare their parents (but for some reason neither one of them like to be scared by us – hmmm…..).

1.  A couple weeks ago I mentioned one night at dinner that I had jumped a little when I walked through our “play room” to get to my workout room one morning (5:15ish).  Hunter had left his cello in there after his lesson the night before but with the light off (I only turn on minimal lights in the mornings) I didn’t know what it was.  

this is exactly how it looked
this is exactly how it looked

See how the hat could make it look like a person?  

So, Jordan sat and listened  and formulated a plan.

The next morning I went downstairs a bit after 5:00 am just like every morning.  I was messing with my phone (I like to take a few minutes to check FB and mail before I start my workout) so I walked through the workout room, flipped on the light and then into the living room to put my water down.  I went back to the workout room to get what I needed for my 44 and saw this – 

Jordan in his wizard's cloak
Jordan in his wizard’s cloak

I about came unglued!!  Jordan got up at 4:30 am to make sure he was standing in place like this when I walked in so that he could scare me – he succeeded!!  I’m pretty sure that I could have skipped my workout since my heart rate was sky high!!!

2.  Last week I was working at the venue – I was setting up the ballroom which involved trips to the back room for tables and chairs.  And, I had music playing so I was in my own world!!!  

ballroom
ballroom

I was busy working not paying attention to anything else and I happened to look up and see someone walking toward me carrying stuff.  

Chris, Jordan &Hunter(Obviously this isn’t a current picture but for some reason I don’t have many of Chris in his flight suit.)

I might have shrieked just a bit!!

Turns out Chris knew that I was going to be there all day (over 8 hours) cleaning, setting up and ironing table cloths and he brought me lunch!!!

3.  Saturday morning we had to clean at the venue AGAIN but I decided to try something new.  Since Chris was off and could help, I told him that I was going to run from our house to the GRH and meet him there.  (and he could do the cleaning!!!)

I wasn’t sure how far it was for the route that I planned (it turned out to be exactly 10 miles!!) – I knew that there was going to be one sketchy part through the ghetto but it was only about 7 blocks so I decided to just suck it up and go.

I was running along on this awful brick sidewalk  in the part I dreaded – Screen Shot 2014-06-29 at 5.45.07 PMIt was very uneven!!  All of a sudden I heard this man yelling something.  I looked up and saw an emaciated guy in overalls without a shirt on a rickety porch – then I heard the DOG!!

There was a chain link fence that looked similar to this – Screen Shot 2014-06-29 at 5.49.41 PMand I had no idea if there was a gate or the dog was fixing to spring out at me.  I jumped into the street and the creepy man started laughing.  He said, “Aw, he won’t hurt you – he can’t even get out.”

Thankfully the lady with no shirt or teeth, just a blanket wrapped around her (even though it was unbelievable hot and muggy) and the guy with her didn’t laugh, too!!!

I’m not sure that my heart rate ever settled the rest of my run!!!

What has been your most recent scare?

Happy Monday – hopefully a day with no scares!!!

Kim

Black Cats, Ladders, Mirrors…

Lately I have been breaking things – glass things!!  

Last week I was helping Jordan get some stuff out of his room that he doesn’t want anymore and I had his old Lava lamp –

Screen Shot 2014-06-26 at 9.22.00 PMI was trying to put it in the ever-growing garage sale pile.  What I didn’t know is that the glass part isn’t really attached to the base.  Umm….it was a huge slimy mess with glass mixed in!!!

Yesterday morning I was helping some friends who are moving into a new house this weekend.  They are trying to get everything but the furniture and heavy boxes done before Saturday (we will help them load the U-Haul Saturday).  This morning we did all the kitchen stuff.

Instead of wrapping everything, we just filled laundry baskets and plastic bins – drove them to the new house – unpacked and went back for more.

Nothing broke in transit but I was loading a cabinet with drinking glasses, water bottles and coffee mugs.  

I was adjusting one of the shelves with the little metal brackets – Screen Shot 2014-06-26 at 9.28.49 PM

 I already had some glasses on the bottom of the cabinet – the shelf I was moving sort of slipped and crushed 2 stacked juice glasses.  Pretty much this is what happened – Screen Shot 2014-06-26 at 9.31.12 PM

Then the  worst break happened last night at a wedding change-over.  Jordan, Chris and I were flipping the set-up from ceremony seating to reception set-up.  Everything was going great and we would have been done in less than 15 minutes until several of the guests decided they could “help” us. 

Well, when 10 people are going in and out of a small space working around decorations and stuff, bad things happen.

A tall glass vase – Screen Shot 2014-06-26 at 9.40.39 PMhad a square mirror on it with a tall metal “thing” on that and then a lit candle.

Rolling out the final table (I was doing it for Jordan),  the leg popped out and hit the structure and the entire thing toppled in slow motion!  Glass and candle wax went everywhere – not cool!!!

So, on the way home Jordan asked me if I had seen any black cats lately or walked under an ladders.  Screen Shot 2014-06-26 at 9.43.31 PM

The answer is – NO!!!  I don’t know what is up with me and glass products lately but I seem to have issues!

I guess I should be happy the mirror didn’t break in the candle/vase decoration!!!

Are you superstitious?  
Do you ever feel super klutzy or like a total butter fingers?

Happy Friday!!

Kim

The Blogger Behind the Blog

I thought it would be fun to share some random facts that you probably didn’t even know you wanted to know!!!

1.  How long does it take you to get ready for the day?
I can take a shower, do my hair & make-up, get dressed and be ready to go in under 30 minutes!!  And, the thing that takes the longest is always my shower – I love long hot showers!!

2.  Do you have any collections?
I collect cookbooks!!!

some of my collection
some of my collection
the shelves on the other side of the fireplace
the shelves on the other side of the fireplace

I also have a thing for shoes (all kinds – cowboy boots, sandals, heels, running shoes…) and purses.  Oh, and I like to add to my workout DVDs.

my fitness DVDs
my fitness DVDs

3.  What are the ages of your siblings?
Tim – twin (44)
Sam – 38
Mandi – 37

4.  Can you play any musical instruments?
Sadly, NO!!!  I took piano lessons for about 3 years when I was 6-8 and I played the clarinet in 5th grade.  I also can’t carry a tune but that doesn’t stop me from belting out songs when I’m working (cleaning/ironing at venue) and sometimes when I’m running.

5.  Do you have friends that you have known since elementary school?  Jr. High? High School?
The farthest I go back is 9th grade which was actually Jr. High at the time.  We moved a lot growing up!!  I am FB friends with a few people that I knew in 2nd-4th grade but I haven’t seen them in years!!!

6.  If you had to pick your last meal, what would you choose?
I would probably go to Esparzas (our favorite Mexican food place in Grapevine, TX) and have an order of Queso Flameado – basically a lot of cheese with a bit of chicken and veggies – good stuff!!!  Plus a couple Margaritas which is why we loved Esparzas!!!

YUM!!
YUM!!

7.  What is your favorite sport to watch?
college basketball!!!Screen Shot 2014-06-24 at 8.57.58 PM

8.  Are you “missing” any body parts?
I had my gall bladder removed in 2003 but I still have all the rest of my parts!!!

9.  How many times have you moved?
21 times!!!!  Yikes – I don’t think I’ve ever counted all of my moves before!!!  I’m currently on my record in one place – it will be 10 years the first week of August!!!

10.  Are you type A?
100% YES!!!  My husband might even say I’m A+!!!

Pick any question (or all) and tell me your answer!

Happy Wednesday!!

Kim

What Right Does Anyone Have to Judge Us?

How many times have you felt like you are being judged by others?

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I know that I have felt judged and been judged way more times than I like.  Because of how horrible it always makes me feel, I try really hard to not pass those feelings on to others.

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These feelings started way back in my teen years and spilled over from there.  I know that from the time I was about 17 through the present my mom has not approved of many of my decisions.  The sad thing is they aren’t “bad” decisions – just not what she would choose.

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Now, I’m at a point in my life where it doesn’t bother me as much to not please everyone.  I know that people are always going to disapprove and make assumptions without knowing all of the facts.

Screen Shot 2014-06-22 at 8.46.55 PMI try very hard to make sure that my boys don’t feel judged by me.  Even though we might not agree about everything, they are entitled to make their own decisions and I want to respect them and support the choices they make.

Have you ever felt judged by someone who should be supporting you?

Happy Monday!!

Kim

Scaling Back

Summer is my all-time favorite time of year!!!  In my perfect world it would be  full of family, sun and fun!

However, this summer is a little different because Screen Shot 2014-06-19 at 9.11.55 PMwe bought a business and there is always a list of stuff that needs to be done.

I’ve been feeling stressed because we have a few weeks (next week is one of them) that have back-to back-to back events and so I will have some early (earlier than normal!!) mornings to clean, set-up, wash table cloths and iron them……to get it ready for the next event.

The other stress is the fact that I feel like I need to work harder at promoting our business.

What I really want to do is hang out with these 2 goofy boys – 

Jordan & Hunter

Spend time in the sun – 

my favorite
my happy place

And, at some point we need to enjoy time on the boat!!

on the Pontoon!
on the Pontoon!

So, I told Chris that I’m going to continue to take calls on the business and do showings but I’m going to put all promotion efforts on the back burner until the boys go back to school.  

And, I’ve been scaling down on time spent on the computer.  My BlogLovin’ feed is out of control and there are times that it takes me a couple days to respond to comments here.  I’m trying to be OK with that but it is a struggle.

So, I’m going to take some advice from Carla and “do what I can when I can.”

Do you feel like the summer is busier or more relaxing in your world?

Happy Friday!!

Kim