Are You Living Your Passion?

Saturday morning I had a video conference as part of the workshop that I’m taking with Tara (Family Sport Life).  One of my main focuses during this 6 week workshop has been our business.

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From previous discussions, Tara already knew that I wanted to grow our business but not at the expense of giving up any family time.  Saturday Tara asked me if my plan was to do as much as possible with the business now and then really put all of my time and energy into it in a few years when both boys are out of high school and no longer living at home.

Her eyes almost popped out of her head when I said “NO!!”  After the boys are done with school and Chris is retired (less than 6 years for all of this!!) we will move – TO A BEACH!!!

I need this view all day every day!
I need this view all day every day!

I think this was one of those lightbulb moments!  The whole reason that I’m struggling so much to do the things on my list every day/week is because it is NOT my passion.

We own a business –

the day we closed
the day we closed

so I feel like I need to make it the best event venue possible.

However, it is pretty obvious that I’m not living my passion and that is the reason I’m struggling so much with everything from being motivated to being positive and enjoying all parts of my life.

The real problem is I don’t even know what my passion is anymore.

16 years ago I quit working (teaching and coaching) to stay home with my first baby.  I spent 9 years as a stay-home mom and feel fortunate that I had the opportunity but somewhere along the way I lost part of me.

sweaty - sign of a good run
sweaty – sign of a good run

I’ve always had my running and working out but I don’t know if that counts as living my passion.

The number one thing we have always told our boys when they start talking about what they want to do with their lives is that they should do something they love and be happy!!!

Chris knew when he was in high school that he wanted to be a pilot.  He figured out a way to make that happen and has always loved what he does!!!DSCN0408I hope that one day my boys feel the exact same way about whatever they end up doing!!!

Do you know what your passion is?
Are you living it every day?

I need to figure out what my passion is make sure I live it every day!!!

Happy Monday!

Kim

The Legs Feed the Wolf (3/1 – 3/7)

Screen Shot 2015-03-07 at 9.43.45 AMMiracle might be one of my all-time favorite movies!!  When the head coach has the team skating lots of suicide type drills he tells the players, “The legs feed the wolf.”  When it came time for the big games (Olympics), they were better conditioned than any other team on the ice!!!

So, I tell myself the same thing when I’m running high mileage and also when I back off a little to rest my legs for a couple weeks!!!  This week I had much lower mileage but I did a number of workouts and exercises to strengthen my legs, especially my hips.

Sunday 3/1  45 standing crunches – lift one leg straight out and bring hands to foot while holding a medicine ball – crunch on the forward bend.

start position
start position
lift right leg and crunch
lift right leg and crunch
lift left leg and crunch
lift left leg and crunch

I like that this move  works your core and also your hip flexors!

I ran 8 miles in 59:58 followed by 0.6 easy miles.

Monday 3/2  45 push-ups while kneeling on a stability ball (shins rest on the ball and your butt stays down on your heels).

set-up
set-up
down
down

These look a bit awkward but it was a really good move.  You can tell that it was hard for me to keep my butt on my heels during the down part – need to work on that!

I did Cathe – Turbo Barre.  Talk about a workout for your hips and legs – this one is great!!!

Tuesday 3/3  45 side leg abduction while in a semi-squat.

Partial squat with left leg - right leg ready to lift
Partial squat with left leg – right leg ready to lift
stay low and lift right leg - squeeze butt
stay low and lift right leg – squeeze butt

There is a bit of balance involved with this move too!!

ready to squat right and left left
ready to squat right and left left
lift the leg while staing low
lift the leg while staying low

Running day – 10 miles in 75:44 followed by 1 easy mile.

Wednesday 3/4  45 single leg step-up on BOSU then circle opposite leg back-front-back before stepping down.

step up with left leg and start with right leg pushing back
step up with left leg and start with right leg pushing back
sweep leg around to front
sweep leg around to front

From the above position, sweep the right leg back so that it is behind you and then step off the BOSU.

I did all 45 reps stepping up with my left leg and then switched and did another set.

step on with left right leg, left leg squeezes back
step on with left right leg, left leg squeezes back
sweep leg to front
sweep leg to front, then back behind you before stepping off.

The hardest part of this move was staying balanced while sweeping your leg around!!!

I did TaeBo Amped – Rockin’ Buns.  There isn’t a lot of cardio involved in this workout but it is great for strengthening your hips, legs and even your core.

Thursday 3/5  45 BOSU superman lifts.  Nellie (Brooklyn Active Mama) featured this move as one of her Wednesday Workouts.

Place a band under your BOSU with enough slack that you can lift it but still have a challenge.  I decided to add an extra challenge and stay in a partial squat while completing my arm lifts.

ready
ready
lift your arms above your head
lift your arms above your head

After about 25 reps I had to give myself a little more band to work with because this was hard!!!

This was another running day – 8 miles in 60:20 followed by 1.05 miles easy.

Friday 3/6  45 quad/knee raises while pushing foot down with bar.

ready to start
ready to start
lift knee up and push down on the bar at the same time
lift knee up and push down on the bar at the same time

By pushing the bar down it makes the resistance so much harder than just lifting your body weight.

ready to work the other side
ready to work the other side
lift knee and push down on bar
lift knee and push down on bar

This day was the closest to a rest day that I took this week.  I did Caribbean Workout – Core Pilates for an hour.

Saturday 3/7  45 “first position” monkey squats.  (I had to google what the position was called!!!)

stand in first position (heels touching - toes turned out) and touch toes
stand in first position (heels touching – toes turned out) and touch toes
go down into a squat while holding on to your toes
go down into a squat while holding on to your toes

By holding your toes for the entire move this feels different than just doing normal squats!!!  Turning my toes out made the move different from a standard monkey squat.

And, I did one more run for the week.
6 miles – 45:17 followed by 1.75 easy miles.

I think overall it was a good workout week even cutting back on my running.
32 miles of hard running
4.4 easy miles

Happy Saturday!!

Kim

More Smiling Means More Happy!!

Screen Shot 2015-03-05 at 8.53.40 PMLast week at this time I was anything but happy so I wrote a post about being positive to see if that would help!!!  (It didn’t help much  since I was also prepping for a colonoscopy.)

Over the weekend I decided that just because last week wasn’t a great one there was no reason it had to carry over into my attitude this week.

One of my goals for this week was simply to smile more!!!

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I made sure that every day included at least one fun thing in addition to the stuff that had to be done.
*  a jazz concert
*  a trip to Target (it doesn’t take much!!)
*  finally getting my nails done
*  lunch with a friend
*  a couple of phone calls to some of my favorite people

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And the main thing I focused on this week was my attitude and trying to keep smiling no matter what!

Guess what?!  This week was so much better!!!

What do you do when you’ve had a bad day or week?
Was this week better than the previous one for you?  I hope so!

Happy Friday!!!

Kim

One Size Does NOT Fit All!!

Do you ever have days that everything you read and hear seems to be trying to fit everyone into a mold?

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Food:  Definitely not “one size fits all” since everyone has different dietary needs and requirements.  Just because being Paleo works for some and others have to avoid gluten and some choose to be vegan doesn’t mean that everyone should eat the same!!!

I like my carbs and meat and cheese and wine!!

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Exercise:  We all know our own bodies and what works and doesn’t work for us.  Some of us LOVE running and can’t imagine a life without it but there are many people who despise running and that is perfectly OK!!

And, we all like to spend different amounts of time on our workouts which is fine – there isn’t a set amount of time that is the best!!!

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Parenting/Marriage/Life in General:  Lately these areas are some that I’ve seen a lot of rules and guidelines for and it sort of bugs me.  What works for some families doesn’t necessarily  work for our family and I know that some of the things we do would never work for lots of people.

There are so many sources that try to make us all fit into neat little boxes and it is NEVER going to happen!!!

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I think it is easy to get caught up in trying to do the “right things” or the things that others seem to think we should but we really just need to find and do what works for us and not worry about the rest!!!

Do ever feel like others (society in general) are trying to mold you and put you in a box?
How do you feel about “One size fits all”?

Happy Wednesday!!

Kim

I’ll Love You Forever

Screen Shot 2015-03-01 at 3.58.06 PMThere are so many songs, quotes and thoughts about love.  Lately I have been trying to make sure that my boys know that I will love them forever no matter what – nothing they can do or say will ever change my love for them!!!

I think that Whitney Houston sums it up pretty well:

I hope life treats you kind
And I hope you have all you’ve dreamed of
And I wish you joy and happiness
But above all this I wish you love

And I… will always love you
I will always love you
I will always love you
I will always love you

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One of my favorite books to read the boys when they were younger is one that made me cry almost every time I read it –

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If you haven’t read it, I highly recommend it!!!  Even if you don’t have kids you have/had  parents and the book is still applicable!!!  This line is repeated numerous times in it –

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Even though my boys are 16 and 13, they will always be my babies and I will always love them!!!

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I hope that my boys always know they don’t have to do anything to gain my love – it is just there for them always!!!

Do you have someone in your life who gives you that unconditional forever love?
I know that my grandparents (Mema & Poppa) loved me always and I like to think  that Chris loves me with a forever love.

Happy Monday!!

Kim

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